Let’s be real—I love porn. You probably do too. So when a guy says, “If there’s no porn, I can’t get off,” I get it. Been there, stroked that. But hosting a group bate club? That’s a whole different beast. Especially when you’re doing it in a hotel room with one TV and a dozen […]
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It always starts with curiosity. That little thought you can’t quite shake: what would it feel like to be in a room full of men, all stroking together? Would I fit in? Would I even be able to relax? That spark is the first step — and if you’re reading this, you’ve already taken it.
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So you’re straight, a little curious, and wondering what it’s like to stroke in a room with other guys? You’re not alone—and you’re not weird for thinking about it. You identify as a straight man, and you’re curious about attending a masturbation group, but you’re worried that means you’re gay? The short answer: no, you’re
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When I started BATE: Raleigh, it wasn’t to be edgy—it was to fill a void. I wanted to create a space where men could come together, affirm their erotic energy, and not feel pressure to perform, impress, or hook up. Just be present. Inspired by traditional Jacks clubs like Austin Jacks, Motor City Jacks, and
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